
In October, Betsy Campisi, a volunteer on the last Pretty Bird Woman House fundraising drive called Georgia Little Shield, the shelter director to check in. After all, after the previous May fundraiser, things looked great - Pretty Bird Woman House had a building, funding from the Netroots until a grant kicked in in... things were going well. But when Betsy spoke to Georgia she heard grim news.
Our shelter was burned down. They stole everything. Then they burnt it down.
Betsy asked; how much to buy a new house with a security system? The answer: $70,000. Worse, all the grants Pretty Bird Woman House depended on required a physical building to use as a shelter. They needed the money FAST. It seemed so unlikely back in October that it could even be done...
Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith and just hope that the net is there to catch you. This time there was no net. But you wonderful people... you wove that net even as everything was falling off the edge. You wove the net out of blog posts and $5 donations, out of human love and compassion.
If you are not familiar with the story behind Pretty Bird Woman House you can get a pretty complete history right here.
Wow, I don't cry often but today when I surfed over to the Pretty Bird Woman House Blog and saw this:
well, I pretty much lost it..
The timing could not have been better - Pretty Bird Woman House had a Board of Directors Meeting today. All of the Board of Directors and the advocates who work for the Pretty Bird Woman House had come into town for the meeting. Shelter Director Georgia Little Shield checked the Chip-In before the meeting started:
Everybody broke down in tears... thank you, thank you, thank you! The Board of Directors was shocked. The girls (the advocates) were crying they were so surprised.
Even more amazing - they have not finished counting the checks that have arrived in the mail yet - we have really raised more than $77,000 for Pretty Bird Woman House... in fact, it might be well over $80,000 by the time the counting is done. You did not just buy a women's shelter - you bought furniture, paid some of the energy bills, got a top notch security system... Georgia has promised me she will keep us updated on how the money is used. They have a donated digital camera and she will photograph things as they happen so that we can see.
Georgia went on to tell me that her life experiences with domestic violence and abuse as well as the horrors she sees on a day to day basis sometimes catch up to her and darken her world.
But this.. this has totally amazed me and given me hope - that there are so many good people out there. Strangers who actually care.
Now the voices of these women will be heard!
A new energy fills Pretty Bird Woman House; the staff does not spend its time trying to figure out how to make ends meet for tomorrow, unable to see how they can function next week, let alone the next month. Already things are falling into place. They have a bid in on a house across from the police station; if that does not work out for any reason, they have other buildings in mind.
Georgia is expanding the services offered by Pretty Bird Woman House - she has applied for two new grants and wants to hire two advocates who will specialize in working with victims of sexual assault. And Pretty Bird Woman House has a new volunteer advocate. Those of you who followed this story will remember her. Back in October Georgia told us about the situation this remarkable woman was in:
I recently attended a court sentencing of man that pled guilty to a charge of sexual assault against a Native American Woman and the Mayor of his town testified that he was an up standing community member and that the community would except him back with open arms and to just give him probation.
That's right; the new advocate for victims at Pretty Bird Woman House is the woman who was raped by this man. She is completing this circle and as part of her healing is reaching out to help others.
So who did this? Who is behind this amazing achievement?
A lot of people seem to think that Betsy Campisi and myself, Andy Ternay did it... and that is so wrong. We were just along for the ride, man.
The person who started Pretty Bird Woman House is Jackie Brown Otter. She did it in memory of her sister, Pretty Bird Woman, who was raped and murdered. Georgia Little Shield is the director of Pretty Bird Woman House. About seven Lakota Sioux (some may be Dakota Sioux - my apologies if I have gotten this wrong) women have been the core of this whole project, they nurtured the dream and made it reality.
The progressive netroots would probably never have heard of this if Daily Kos user Norman Bier had not heard a National Public Radio story on an Amnesty International Report detailing how terrible the plight of Native American women was with regard to sexual assault. Norman Bier diaried on Daily Kos about the fact that without funds, Pretty Bird Woman House would close - and over 600 people responded with $27,000 to keep the shelter running until grant money kicked in.
That's how Betsy got involved. I only got involved after reading a diary by Winter Rabbit called Pretty Bird Woman House: Let's Unbury some Hearts. Daily Kos frontpager Devilstower gave the fundraising a jolt of lightning when he frontpaged a fundraising diary.
Some Individual Mentions
I know I will leave some people out... and I apologize, there have simply been too many to thank or remember... literally over a thousand people, probably around 1,100 or more have been involved by donating money, time, clothing, blogging about it... but there are some I want to mention and I just hope I don't hurt any feelings by missing anyone. Please, it is not that your contribution was unimportant; it's that either space, time or just my human errors made me forget.
Raw Stats
Blogs Honor Roll:
All Spin Zone
Angry Black Bitch
Bitch PhD
Black and Missing but not Forgotten - this blog exists to publicize missing black women in the hope that they can be found, or at least not forgotten. It's terrible to know there is a need for a blog like this, but it's wonderful that Deidra has chosen to to this. I know she is a Christian, but I hope she won't mind me wishing that the Goddess bless her and hold her.
Ciannait at Live Journal who also did a big challenge grant.
Coleen at livejournal
Nezua Limon Zolagrafik-Jonez on Corrente
Daily Gotham
Daily Kos
Docudharma
ECHIDNE OF THE SNAKES
elynross
Feministe
Nezua Limon Xolagrafik-Jonez on Jesus' General
Left In The West
Melekakimaka: Christmas in Hawaii
Mole333 at Culture Kitchen
My Left Wing
Nezua Limon Xolagrafik-Jonez at Culture Kitchen
Obsidian Wings
Offsprung: Lock the Bedroom Door
one tenacious baby mama
Other Guild? Whatever that may be
Our Bodies, Our Blog
RadGeek
Radical Doula
ShakespearesSister
Shakesville
Street Prophets
The Unapologetic Mexican
Vox ex Machina
Wampum
Wild Wild Left
Women's Health News
Zillah's Gin
(Editorial note from Betsy: If you're not mentioned above and you have put this story in your blog, we'd love to know! Just tell us in the comments...thanks)
The Future For Pretty Bird Woman House
This time around we won't lose touch; Georgia is planning on launching a regular newsletter... if you donated, you will get it (I will work with her so that you can opt out; Georgia is an incredible woman but she is not net savvy). We'll do periodic diaries on Daily Kos and Street Prophets. Betsy and I are hoping to take a trip out and visit the new house when it is set up.
Hopefully we have put Pretty Bird Woman House in a position to be self-sustaining. It is great that we helped, but they must be able to thrive and grow on their own. We provided extraordinary assistance at a time of extraordinary crisis, which is appropriate. Personally, I think they are on the way. I expect them to keep growing.
The Future For Native American Women: Obtaining Equal Justice
Well, truthfully I have been so busy with the fundraiser I have not really thought about this but I am going to make this a part of my life. How can we expect justice in Iraq when our own people are treated this way? We have to put an end to it.
I am starting my research with Senator Byron Dorgan's concept paper on improving law enforcement in Indian country. More information and places to submit comments are here. But that's about as far as I have gotten with this. Maybe in comments people can suggest other places to go.
So the fight is not over by any means... but for now we celebrate an amazing victory!
WE DID IT! WE BOUGHT PRETTY BIRD WOMAN HOUSE A NEW HOUSE!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR PROGRESSIVE NETROOTS!!
You can still Donate here!.
Pretty Bird Woman House is a 501 (c) 3 charitable organization.
More info here:
Pretty Bird Woman House Blog - many more resources and links here!!
Amnesty International Report-Maze of Injustice: The failure to protect Indigenous women from sexual violence in the USA
Why traditional fundraising avenues are closed to Pretty Bird Woman House
A Fairly Complete History of Pretty Bird Woman House.
Pretty Bird Woman HouseYahoo Group.






14 comments:
I'm so thrilled that you have received all you needed! I sent what I could and referred folks from my LiveJournal and asked my friends to send money to you instead of any gifts to me for this holiday season.
I hope that you are able to buy the house across from the police station, that the women you help will be safe and protected, and that Pretty Bird Woman House will be a beacon in the Native community, inspiring others to do this work that is so very important.
Is there a way to make a regular monthly contribution to PBWH for continuing expenses? I would like to add you to my list of monthly charities to help keep you solvent as the years go by.
ciannait posted this journal in her lj and matched donations with other donors. I think she matched donation over $1000 plus helped spread the word. :)
http://ciannait.livejournal.com/
Thanks for letting me know singnwinds, she then joined our yahoo group. OK, now we've got a list going, this is good.
erynn,
I'll figure out how you can make a monthly contribution for sure! Thanks so much for thinking of that.
betsy
Wow!! Here are some more blogs that picked it up, snatched right off the sitemeter:
http://offsprung.com/ltbd/
Live Journal folks: you're amazing. I hadn't even seen some of these before today:
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Amazing cross linkages are happening now on Live Journal. You folks are fantastic.
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and MeyerLemon you have just crossposted this everywhere - thanks!
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Dunno if anyone came from my place, but I posted the Chip-in thingie here.
congratulations. looking forward to seeing what great things are in store for your organization.
question: what is the song that plays when the page is loaded? it is the most beautiful thing i've heard. i would like to get a CD of it and/or similar songs.
thanks.
Congratulations on reaching your goal! I just contributed - better late than never, I figured. It's not much, but I wanted to help.
Hi Betsy: I read the article in the Rapid City newspaper yesterday and was dismayed to learn about the city council/zoning hearing.
I'm sure Georgia is on top of things, but I've had some very painful and expensive experience with local boards around locating shelters/group homes/affordable housing.
My 2 cents is that she should use some of the donated funds to hire a lawyer who is familiar with zoning and Fair Housing ASAP. Even just for a consultation beforehand, but having someone at the hearing for support and advice would be even better.
These ordinances often verge on illegal discrimination (or outright cross the line)but are usually decided based on emotion and fear. Sometimes a reminder to the Board about legal issues can help.
The statewide domestic violence coaltion probably has some helpful advice, too.
There are lots of resources on the internet re: NIMBY, but I doubt the staff at PBWH has the time to devote to this. They mostly advise you to do a lot of work with the local powers-that-be for months in advance, as well as lining up every possible supporter. All good advice, but presupposes much more time & resources than most non-profits have available.
Sorry for the long post. I'd just hate to see this wonderful effort be stymied by a few opponents.
Marija,
I agree with you, but the shelter is going to the hearing with representatives of the South Dakota Coalition, and at least one lawyer. Lets see what they council does. That article is going to put pressure on them to approve the shelter. It was on the front page of the RC Journal on Monday, and that means all Congressional staffers as well as local reps saw it. I'll be announcing what happens and anything bloggers can do here, the day after the hearing.
I'll also post the link, thanks for reminding me.
For people wanting to know who did the flute music, you can find it at Brentblount.com. Nice,eh?
OK, I'm going to collect some more live journal entries, and send my thanks to more folks:
http://rainbow-sherbet.livejournal.com/
http://offsprung.com/ltbd/
I am absolutely thrilled to read this post! Congrats on the new house. If you do end up doing monthly pledges, please let us all know. I'd be happy to donate again.
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